1. financial conditions: if you live in a different place, you need to bear all the living expenses and children's education expenses, while in your hometown, you may get more support from your family and friends. If family economic conditions permit, you can consider staying in the local area; However, if the economic conditions are difficult, you can consider returning to your hometown and getting help and support from your family and friends.
2. Children's education: If you want your children to receive a better education, staying in the local area may be a better choice, because the local education is relatively high. However, if you go back to your hometown, you can help your children to accompany their elderly mothers and other family members, and returning to your hometown is also beneficial to your children's growth.
3. Personal adaptation: If you live in the local area, you may adapt to the new living environment faster and have more life opportunities. If you choose to go back to your hometown, you need to adapt to the living environment in your hometown, re-establish more social circles, and look for a job.
4. Family factors: If you are married far away, people in your family will be very worried about you when they know your situation, and going home can eliminate their worries. At the same time, if children are often talked about by people around them because of their parents' divorce, it will have an impact on their psychology and healthy growth environment.
generally speaking, you need to weigh the pros and cons and make the best decision according to your actual situation and needs. At the same time, no matter which way you choose, make sure that your decision is the best choice for you and your children, and is conducive to your physical and mental health and future development.